The draw of the extreme is a powerful one. As a person matures, what was once considered a leading edge and extreme fetish slowy errodes into a hackneyed, stereotyped and dated shell of what it once was. Remember when polyamory, (called swining back in that ancient disco heyday,) was considered almost taboo? And now it’s an almost accepted social norm, openly portrayed an even celebrated in the mainstream media?
Given the near constant decline of all things edgy and kink, how does one avoid the fate of the leopard-print dinosaurs slowly filling beds in retirement homes? There are two keys. Number one is to remain humble. Never assume you know it all, have seen it all, or done it all. Keep your mind focused on what coming up over the fetish horizon, and don’t fall victim to old patterns.
Number two is finding a way to stay informed, practicing, even innovating from time to time. If life gets in the way, find a convenient way to do so. That is, of course where the sales pitch on our part comes in. Our girls know kink and it’s all they do.
